Most of us feel the tension when it comes to sharing our faith.
We know we should be bold.
We know Jesus has called us to go.
But on the inside, it often feels like:
“I wouldn’t know what to say…”
“I’m not ready for that…”
“I’m not enough.”
And somewhere in that tension, we start to wonder…
Am I missing it?
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I have a neighbor who had a need, so I helped him out.
That simple moment turned into more conversations…
and over time, he started helping me with a few things too.
What started as meeting a need
turned into a relationship where we’re helping each other.
And somewhere along the way, something shifted.
Now he jokes that one of these days he might just show up at church.
It got me thinking…
Is it possible that we’ve misunderstood what Jesus meant when He said to make disciples?
We hear “tell them.”
But Jesus said, “teach them.”
And that difference changes everything.
Have we turned it into a task…
a moment where we say the right thing at the right time?
Instead of what Jesus actually said:
“Teach them to obey everything I have commanded you.”
Not just a moment where we say something… but a process where we walk with someone.
We hear “tell them.” Jesus said, “teach them.”
That takes time.
That takes trust.
That takes relationship.
Is it possible…
that we’ve made the conversation about Jesus the target…
instead of making disciples the target?
Because when that happens, everything shifts.
Instead of pressure to perform,
there’s an invitation to walk with people.
Instead of trying to get through a moment,
we begin to build something over time.
Real discipleship might look like:
Working together
Sharing meals
Showing up in each other’s lives
And yes—eventually talking about Jesus.
But not as a task to complete…
As something that naturally flows
from a growing relationship.
Here’s the part we often forget:
Jesus is already at work in the people around you.
He knows what they need.
He knows what to say.
And He’s right there with you—ready to lead you.
You don’t have to have it all figured out…
you just have to be willing to follow His lead.
Try this:
Think of three people
you believe the Holy Spirit is already working on.
Write their names down.
Pray for them daily.
And stay open.
Maybe the question isn’t:
“Did I say the right thing?”
Maybe it’s this:
Is it possible I’ve misunderstood Jesus’ command?
Is it possible…
that making disciples was never meant to be a single moment…
but a relationship over time?
Because success here isn’t about saying everything perfectly.
It’s about learning to live in that space where:
We’re serving Jesus with what we have…
while relying completely on Him for what we don’t.
And there’s actually joy there.
You don’t have to be enough.
You just have to be available.